
(cover photo by Thomas Hawk. Used with permission.)
The following post is a reaction to page 6 of What Matters Now, a free ebook organized by Seth Godin. Please feel free to leave a comment and join the conversation.
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Fear. Tell me about it.
Ridding ourselves of fear is necessary to do great things, right? But what to do about the crippling fear of what others think of us? I believe this fear is the most insidious for entrepreneurs who are taking their first shot at something. I know. I've been there.
We may have family members who think they are being supportive, but who are actually incredibly negative and harmful.
Example: "Dad, I just published my first book!" Dad's reply:"Now, don't think you're going to make $10,000." Interpretation: Dad didn't want me to quit my day job, and wanted me to stay financially secure. How it comes across is, "Don't think you are going to be successful. Plan for failure." Do you have anybody in your life like that?
We may have friends who are not entrepreneurial, who are not risk takers, and who always find the negative.
Example: "I just sent an author a contract!" Friend's reply: "Don't count on that author signing. The time isn't right/economy is bad/planet Mercury is retrograde." Again, this friend wants to protect me, but it comes across as, "Don't think for one minute that you will be successful. Plan for failure."